View Full Version : How to break up with someone a good way???
Vixter
10-09-2007, 08:39 AM
Hey I want to break up with my boyfriend BUT i just don;t know how..I have been meaning to do it for a while but I just cant bring myself to do it. I just feel to guilty and I hate dealing with confrontation.
I was thinking about asking a friend to do it but that seems like such a cop out..help!
chloe
10-09-2007, 09:03 AM
There never is a good way to dicth someone its one of the hardest things to do, but if you don't do it sonner rather than later your end up hurting the person more.
My advice is that you do it in person..its always bad karma to do it over the phone, email yoor via your mate etc. Remember that your are doing the right thing FOR you both!
You bf prob will try to convince you to take them back(this is the hardest part) This is where you have to stay strong, listen to them but remember to stay firm as you have made up your mind! Keep it short and sweet tho get in and get out!!
Beary Natural
10-10-2007, 03:07 PM
I think you should sit down and talk about it first...my boyfriend and i were together for 12 months...(I know it isn't that long, but this was my first relationship)...and we talked about ever thing, we never argued because we would talk things out first...I felt betrayed when he said this is this and we are no more...he didn't talk to me about it at all...communication is the key to a successful relationship!
chinee
22-11-2007, 04:08 PM
Breaking up with someone is not easy. And don't think that there is a good way to do it. You just need to be honest. That is the best way to do it. :)
jnjsarauer
24-11-2007, 03:04 AM
Do not ask a friend to do this for you. Be honest and let the person know that the relationship is just not working for you and you don't want to keep seeing him. Yes, he will probably be hurt, but in the end, he will appreciate your honesty.
maddy
24-11-2007, 03:47 AM
its not good to break up with a person who really loves you , if you want to break up just try to communicate with your partner and tell the problems.
sunrisepink
25-06-2008, 12:36 AM
Are you sure you want to break up with her, or are you just upset about something? Think carefully before you end things with her. Although you shouldn’t wait too long to voice your concerns, it’s a good idea to wait at least an hour after a fight before confronting your girlfriend. After that, you have cooled off enough to determine whether your grievance is really serious enough to warrant a heated face-off or break up. This also gives you time to decide exactly how you want to word your argument, instead of just going off on a ten-minute rant.
rogercllns
20-07-2008, 05:30 PM
Hi
You have done a good question, it’s really interesting. If you get any good reply, so please let me know. So I’ll also get some good idea.
Thanks for your future help.
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