I Just don't know whats going on anymore please help!

[Failed_Blonde]

Only we were together for two months and the day after our two month anniversay we got into a little fight..well miscomunication over what was going on for the night. Next thing I know hes telling me we need to take a couple steps back that we are moving to fast...i was shocked! I asked what was wrong...he says he doesnt know,,part of him wants to be single and the other part does wana mess with us or hurt me or lead me on. so I agreed to give him some space..monday he calls to see how my day went....plus we had a vacation planned for next weekened with other couples and he still wants to go.what do i do? IS this a sign that he cares and want to get back to gether? Or is he really just trying to be friends? NEED ADVISE!!!!

[Farzia]

Hmmmmm sounds like to me he wants to have his cake and eat it! You need to talk to him and find out what is actually going on! If he wants to go on the vacation as friends that is very selfish as you clearly still like him...if he wants to go as a couple them you need to see why he has suddenly changed his mind! Just don't let him mess you around xxxxx

[bongski]

Only we were together for two months and the day after our two month anniversay we got into a little fight..well miscomunication over what was going on for the night. Next thing I know hes telling me we need to take a couple steps back that we are moving to fast...i was shocked! I asked what was wrong...he says he doesnt know,,part of him wants to be single and the other part does wana mess with us or hurt me or lead me on. so I agreed to give him some space..monday he calls to see how my day went....plus we had a vacation planned for next weekened with other couples and he still wants to go.what do i do? IS this a sign that he cares and want to get back to gether? Or is he really just trying to be friends? NEED ADVISE!!!!


well, from a guys point of view, he still wants the communications open, but still being cautious of what to do next. Like Farzia said, he wants to have the cake and eat it. I say word of caution, assess whats really going on between you both. heck go with him to the vacation, but be a little wary as he did make it clear that he doesnt want to lead you on. but as for the mean time, give him the benefit of the doubt. it never hurts to be friendly but dont over do it.

[jnjsarauer]

I would tell him he needs to be very clear in explaining to you what he wants from your relationship. This is the only way you are going to know if you are both thinking along the same lines. If he wants all the benefits of a relationship without a commitment, then you probably will need to say goodbye.

[maddy]

ask for help from ur friends and ur partner if they dont help than try to read out tips from books , magazines, or take tips from net.