Kathy
12-09-2007, 10:05 AM
I found some tips on how to flirt with men! These were my tops 5!
1) Have a Laugh
Everyone wants to be around positive, upbeat people! Spread good vibes and get yourself into the right state of mind for making a fast impression. Focus on positive things and keep the conversation fun and light If you appear to be a fun person people will be drawn to you!
2) Direct signals
Sorry girls but its true, the majorityof men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Smiling and happy gestures may just mean you're a friendly kinda girl. Avoid sticky situations by knowing what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear. If you genuinely want to meet guys then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals.
3) Being an Ice Queen
Make sure you appearfriendly. Sitting like an ice queen will not attract people to you and you may unconsciously be giving out 'no no' signals when secretly you are lusting for someone to approach you. Check what you are giving off and if it's not getting results you want, adjust it. Why not ask friends to give you there opinions
4) Even supermodels gets rejected!
Sometimes things don't work out! The reality is that everyone has experienced rejection in one area of their life. Don't get caught up on negative responses, instead look out for compliments, take them in and shrug off rejection.
5) Ooze sex appeal
One simple rule of thumb for any outfit is that if your mother would wear it, you shouldn't. If you look in the mirror and think, "Do I look ridiculous in this?" then - you probably do. But the most important thing is to feel sexy! If you feel sexy you'll come across that way too.
Think he's interested? Notice a few of these signs and you're probably right:
* Looks at you
* Moves his body to face you
* Adjusts his clothing
* Leans in closer to you
* Smiles whilst looking
* Has an open body posture
I found these on http://lifestyle.ninemsn.com.au/flirt/article.aspx?id=277209
1) Have a Laugh
Everyone wants to be around positive, upbeat people! Spread good vibes and get yourself into the right state of mind for making a fast impression. Focus on positive things and keep the conversation fun and light If you appear to be a fun person people will be drawn to you!
2) Direct signals
Sorry girls but its true, the majorityof men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Smiling and happy gestures may just mean you're a friendly kinda girl. Avoid sticky situations by knowing what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear. If you genuinely want to meet guys then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals.
3) Being an Ice Queen
Make sure you appearfriendly. Sitting like an ice queen will not attract people to you and you may unconsciously be giving out 'no no' signals when secretly you are lusting for someone to approach you. Check what you are giving off and if it's not getting results you want, adjust it. Why not ask friends to give you there opinions
4) Even supermodels gets rejected!
Sometimes things don't work out! The reality is that everyone has experienced rejection in one area of their life. Don't get caught up on negative responses, instead look out for compliments, take them in and shrug off rejection.
5) Ooze sex appeal
One simple rule of thumb for any outfit is that if your mother would wear it, you shouldn't. If you look in the mirror and think, "Do I look ridiculous in this?" then - you probably do. But the most important thing is to feel sexy! If you feel sexy you'll come across that way too.
Think he's interested? Notice a few of these signs and you're probably right:
* Looks at you
* Moves his body to face you
* Adjusts his clothing
* Leans in closer to you
* Smiles whilst looking
* Has an open body posture
I found these on http://lifestyle.ninemsn.com.au/flirt/article.aspx?id=277209