View Full Version : Suss out his calling agenda
chinee
22-11-2007, 09:13 PM
If you've just started seeing a new guy, here's how to figure out his romantic motives based on his dialing behavior. ;D
His calls are always last minute
If you're dating a guy who calls on the day he has an opening to see you, he's probably the type who likes to keep his options open or is just isn't all that invested in your relationship.
chinee
22-11-2007, 09:16 PM
2nd is..
He only calls late at night.
Sure, this may be a sign he's only after one thing (your tip-off: after some idle chitchat, he asks to come over), but it could also be nerves. You see, if he really likes you, it may not be until he's had a few beers with his buds that he builds up the confidence to make contact with you. ;D
chinee
22-11-2007, 09:18 PM
3rd..
He calls a few times each week.
When a guy calls you a couple of times each week - sometimes just to chat and find out about your week rather than arrange a date or hang up - chances are he's genuinely interested and doesn't want this thing to fizzle.
chinee
22-11-2007, 09:21 PM
Lastly..
He checks in several times a day.
While attentive, this behavior in the early days of dating smacks in neediness. On the other hand, he may have recently been through a breakup and be in a hurry to get serious because he's trying to re-create the intensity of his former bond.
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