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chinee
22-11-2007, 09:44 PM
Rebound Impulse 1
Go on a booty bender

Granted, a hot roll in the hay can do wonders for your self-esteem, but you need to gauge your own booty hangover potential. Hooking up with a stranger leaves some women feeling empty, especially when they're emotionally vulnerable. If you're cool with casual sex, go for it; otherwise, it's probably smart to leave your panties on. You can still get an ego boost from chatting up a guy. Flirting makes you feel desirable and sexy, while retaining a sense of control, unlike a string of one-night stands.

chinee
22-11-2007, 09:48 PM
Rebound Impulse 2
Sink into a couch coma

Cave dwelling lets you think things through and survey the damage of your broken heart. Just don't overdo it! It's okay to spend the first weekend assessing the damage or even allowing yourself to mull it over when thoughts creep into your head. But too much mental replay will send you into a downward spiral.

chinee
22-11-2007, 09:53 PM
Rebound Impulse 3
Find a new boyfriend

You've just endured an emotional root canal, and it can take a while for the pain and confusion to subside. Until it does, hang tight. You maybe more into the idea of a new guy than the actual guy. Embrace new single status and date around to get a better idea of the type of guy you really click with.

chinee
22-11-2007, 09:56 PM
Rebound Impulse 4
Go on a party odyssey

Being social is healthy and keeps you moving forward. If you start slipping at work, become lax with your appearance, or can't drag yourself out of bed, there's a good chance you're overdoing it. :)

chinee
22-11-2007, 10:00 PM
Rebound Impulse 5
Try to get him back

Trying to get together again keeps you in a state of limbo. Remove your ex from your buddy list, delete old e-mails, and pack away all those vacation snaps and other mushy mementos. The less you have to remember him by, the easier it will be to forget him and move on.

jnjsarauer
24-11-2007, 03:03 AM
I think the best way to deal with a breakup is to get busy with other activities. Focus on your job more, spend more time with your friends, or enroll in a class. Do all the things that you've been wanting to do but didn't have time for when you were in a relationship.

maddy
24-11-2007, 04:08 AM
try to forget all the rememberance of her , be with ur girl friend as many times you like .

sweetnsour
25-06-2008, 12:39 AM
The best way to get over a break up is to just allow yourself to grieve however it feels natural to you. Just try to remember to stay healthy and take care of yourself. It is a good idea to rely on the support of trusted friends and relatives to get through hard times. Put away any reminders of your former flame, such as mementos, clothing, and photos, and refrain from talking to your ex, no matter how much he or she calls. Take some time away from work or school if you need to, in order to give yourself time to heal emotionally.