My First online Dating Experience

[Pinky]

It was my first experience of ever posting a personal online. I was soooo excited when I got a response, I checked out his profile he seemed pretty kosher. I mean he ticked all the boxes he looked good and it seemed like we would have a lot in common! So after shooting a few emails to each other we arrange to go for a drink.
Then he showed up, and he was so fat at least 80 pounds heavier then he appeared to be..Minging! Then I feel like having some chips with my beer but he was like No No cus he wasn’t hungry which meant I shouldn’t have anything either
I then find out he’s lied to me about his profession and that in fact he gambles to make money and sometimes sell bits and piece online.
He was literally the dumbest, laziest pie I had ever met. After 5 mins of that I was like I’m done he couldn’t even be bothered to construct sentences.
Then he is like wannna get some fresh air? I say yes. So went outside I start walking to my car and says don’t worry you wont need a restraining order on me flips me the V’s and walks off!
I thought there was no need to be so rude! I think he felt put out as he had to get his lazy butt of the sofa to come meet me
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[Daffyd]

I haven't been on a date in a while. I guess it's hard to meet people when you're in your apartment like 6 days a week or whatever. But I'll tell ya a story that happened like a year or so ago. I was a friend's birthday party and there was this girl there that I liked. She seemed nice and had nice boobs. Somehow I ended up talking to her and I got her phone number. This was pretty major for me because it's rare that I meet someone when I'm out. Let alone get a phone number.

When I got home and went into the whole Swingers thing thinking, 'Ok according to that movie I should wait like three days before calling. But three days seemed like alot. And I'm definitely not cool enough to not call for 6 days. I thought about calling the next day but declaring I understood that I was calling before the 'cool' time -but saying I just wanted to talk to her. And maybe she'd be flattered and still think I'm cool cause I'm acknowledging the uncoolity. But then I thought maybe that was obvious. Maybe guys who call the next day say that alot and then I'll be one of those cliche next day guys who think they're being above cool by calling the next day- but in reality I'm right with all the guys that call the next day.

I decided to call her after two days and I asked her out to dinner. She picked the restaurant and gave me the address and we planned to meet at 8:00. Knowing that I get lost alot and don't understand the subway I left like an hour ahead of time. Of course I got lost somewhere along the way and remember being psyched when I finally saw the sign for the restaurant. I headed in and sat down at the bar at like 7:50. There were probably like 10 seats at the bar and 5 people sitting there. Small place. She wasn't there yet. I ordered a drink. Then it's 8:10. Ok she's late. 8:20... She's really late. 8:22. I finished the bowl of bar mix and ordered another drink. I didn't bring her phone number or know her last name so I couldn't call. At 8:30... I'm like. I can't believe it. I'm being like "stood up"? I just spoke to her like 2 hours before. She's doing the stood up move two hours later? At 8:40 I leave. Mad. And sad.

I get home and immediately call her. She answers. And I asked her where she was (sort of angry like). She asked me where I was. I was like AT THE RESTAURANT! She told me she was at the restaurant. I told her I was at the bar waiting. She told me she was at the bar waiting. I knew she had to be lying then. There was only 10 seats at the bar. I was like, You were not there! I was there from 8:00 to 8:40. She told me she was there. I asked her to confirm the restaurant name and street. She did. I was there! Now I felt like I was dealing with a psycho. This place was just not that big. And I got mad at her. And told her the place wasn't that big! She was like, 'wait... was the place really small?' I was like, Yeah tiny! She was like, 'You were in the restaurant next door.' Apparently I saw the sign overhead sticking off the building and just straight out walked into the wrong place. And she was next door.

I tried to spin it into a big laugh moment. Like isn't that funny? But she didn't think it was funny. She wasn't laughing at all. Not because of the mixup. But because of the way I acted. That I pretty much accused her of being a liar. That my first question wasn't 'what happened? are you ok?' That I was a dummy. Or something. She told me she was going out and to call her later in the week to reschedule. So a couple days later I left a message on her machine. She didn't called back. And then I went into the... at what point do you call for the second time? Do you call the second time? Is that being aggressive? And pursue-y? ...Or is that psycho? I waited a week and called her once more. No call back. I guess I was labeled an inconsiderate psycho dummy who can't even find a frickin restaurant on the first date. And that was that. T'was a shame. Cause them boobs were dynamite.

[Electrajean]

Ok, I guess I would be able to somewhat understand where she is coming from, but then she needs to be not act like a bleep because you do not say call and we will reschedule and then just not return calls. I do not think that she was in the place next door. I think that was all a ploy to make you look bad and not her.

[maddy]

roshni came to my place and we met and became friends , arfter that 1 months she went to new jersey, we both we feeling uncomfortable , now we just chat , send mails and go on date through communication

[jnjsarauer]

After reading some of these experiences, I feel like I have been pretty lucky in terms of dating, whether online or offline. I hate when there is miscommunication. Either we get the communication thing down right away with each other, or forget it.

[Hunk]

I have never date a person online. I had just one relationship and that too with my college girl. My friends do online dating but none of them have find real match for them and whenever I asked them the reason they always say "have patience buddy!!!" WTF

[sunrisepink]

Yeah, online dating can be a crap shoot sometimes. One guy that I met online ended up being sooo much heavier than he was in his pictures, well come to find out his pictures were from high school! I hate it when people knowingly misrepresent themselves on dating sites. You know that you’ve found someone good when they are honest about who they are and don’t try to hide things. I recommend talking to people a few times over the phone before meeting them, because that can at least help you determine whether they’re who you think they are, and weed out any dealbreakers.

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