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chinee
25-11-2007, 07:51 PM
Is debate and disagreement something you are comfortable with? Why or why not?

What is your preferred method of communication and why? (i.e. email, in person)

How do you feel or what do you do when there is silence in a conversation?

How frequently (or infrequently) do you like talking about your relationship?

How accessible are you or do you want to be - by phone, email, or other means?

Are there certain topics or subjects you prefer talking about over others?

How do you feel about cussing and strong language?

How and when do you feel comfortable expressing difficult feelings?

How frequently do you like or want to communicate? Daily, hourly, weekly or...?

How do you feel about being interrupted? Do you interrupt others?

What kind of humor do you appreciate and/or use in daily conversation?

How do you communicate when you are upset, if you do at all?

What do you feel about eye contact when speaking to another person?

What sort of time frame do you employ to respond to emails or phone calls?

Are you able to talk to me while doing other things?

If something is bothering you, how long will it take you to bring it up?

What, if any, are your taboo or off-limits topics?

Do you feel you have any communication skills that need to be worked on?

Do you feel safe sharing your secrets or personal issues with me?

From Bonny Albo,
Your Guide to Dating.

jnjsarauer
26-11-2007, 03:00 AM
In response to the first point, yes, I am very comfortable with a lively debate. I love to discuss political issues, religion, controversial items in the news, etc. I enjoy these discussions in my personal life, so if a date doesn't enjoy talking about these things, then he's not the man for me!

jnjsarauer
26-11-2007, 03:02 AM
In regards to swearing and cussing, I can take a little here and there, but too much gets on my nerves. I think if a person swears all the time it makes them sound unintelligent. Not to mention, some people have anger management issues and swear a lot because they are angry. Not my kind of date!